Wednesday, April 26, 2006


Any one who takes on that peevish expression when hears the word 'depression'.....get lost!!!
If you think you are good enough, and feel that depression and all is foolishness ...just Get lost...
I believe that most of us at some point of time have that feeling of guilt, that feeling of failure.
Na...na .....i wont believe, if you negate that....we are humans and we often underestimate ourselves.
so finally....think on following ....
whats suicide? giving up,
why suicide? no option,(failure in acads,failure in competetive exams, failure in love, money, failure in life, guilt, anger etc. etc. etc.)
when suicide? lost ....when we have lost the Bet.......the Bet called LIFE

Well, India, according to statistics, is one of the countries with lowest suicides.....
lemme think.......
hmmm.....would you please let me know, how many suicides get registered?
Ground level fact is that , ki india is also a good suicide point and 45% of them are teenagers. I would have definitely added to the list, but then certain mystical and filmy happened....
There was a girl ...... born deaf and dumb and blind...who lived in exile(well...almost) for first 6 years..no friends.....no wonder,she was wild and like a animal(she never went to school, never had friends, techers(except one whom she met later))....untamed....even not so much loved by her father because she was handicapped....now what happened is...... she somehow studied in tuitions, which were private, crossed school but university was a challenge as it was must to attend classes, and she wanted to compete with the normal people, because her father wanted, becuase she herself wanted. Its not that ki she never broke down, many times ...many many times....did she broke into pieces.....physically, mentally, psychologically and emotionally she was shattered....she was mentally sound like me and you ....absolutely fine ....no +ve points....no strengths, but yes weakness ...what do a deaf and blind have as weakness??....we can only imagine ....but not delineate the truth.
But then she decided that she has got to prove herself and her inexorable fight for her graduation ....competeing people with normal senses...she decided she wont bend the rules, rather she will change the rules.....she decided she will break the underlying principles of success....(what we call success)....she defines what is hardwork, what is determination, what is called 'diehard' spirit.
18 years of relentless labour.....18 years of persistent faith, faith in GOD , faith in herself....
and she finally did it. At times we also feel like suicide ....at times we loose, at times she did, but She finally did it.
and so what i believe is 'IF SHE CAN (without any senses) WHY CANT WE (with all the resources and facilites and most of all with eyes and ears )' and most of all the vision.....
I guess Helen keller is my source of inspiration and she can be yours.
Yes, I am talking about the film 'Black' which is based on a true story.....
I beileve I have learnt the lesson and I want other to understand. These people around us dont see anything....they evaluate things in form of sucess/failure, and success has no options ....it will come one day.
would be happy if the message gets conveyed to the required people.
This Blog is for a special person whom i havent met, hope he/she understands my point exactly..
remember...
'SHE FINALLY DID IT'
why cant we?

regards
ravi
clobber the limits.yes, do it....and even help me do it.